Every behavior serves a purpose (or solves a problem).

What comes up for your partner if you start changing? Are they now faced with their own issues around their health? Does for them, having a partner, also unhealthy and in pain, provide them with some justification for not taking responsibility for some aspects of their health? (Some people do not know who they would be without their illness/diagnosis or pain.) Are they worried that you would leave them or the relationship dynamics will change if you reach your weight and aesthetic goals? Generally, behaviors serve the purpose of keeping the individual safe. In this case, behaviors keep identity safe, relationships safe and the familiar safe…

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Perspectives on the Discomfort of Boundary Setting

This is your invitation to stop handing over your power to someone else. It is your invitation to sit in some discomfort while they surf their discomfort. Setting boundaries is an art. And you won’t get it “right” the first time. Stay curious and keep communication open. Setting boundaries is also like working out. You will have the discomfort of being sore after the first few workouts, but then it gets easier. Same with boundaries. You will become more comfortable at letting people down, not being accommodating and disappointing people.

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Yoga for Every Body: Local and Virtual Class Options Available

Yoga is for you, I promise. These classes are designed to make the most inflexible bodies feel right at home. The poses are beginner friendly and designed to be accessible by all body types. Each class usually has a theme such as “yoga for low back health,” “digestive wellness” or “stress reduction” and so on. There are virtual and in-person options available.

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Heidi Gill
2021 Reflections

Last year I did not make resolutions. Instead, I made (okay, I borrowed it) a list of things I wanted to intentionally manifest. It worked out so well that it deserves to be repeated.

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Heidi Gill